Internet dating first date kiss
I think if the date goes well, it’s nice to gauge if there’s any chemistry there with a kiss. I always go for the split, but if the guy INSISTS on picking it up, I’m okay with that. Does he have good values and will he fit in my world? But, if you add them all up, what you’re doing is tantamount to acting like a detective.Or if he talks about himself too much, you conclude he’s a narcissist who’s not interested in you.Or if he seems interested in you physically, you conclude that he’s disrespectful and wants only one thing.These are all possible conclusions you can draw, but they are, by no means, the only conclusions. A man who talks about his crazy ex may be a great guy – with a really crazy ex and some good stories to tell.
Did you ever think you had a great time, but were shocked to discover that he didn’t feel the chemistry? You’re picking up on every subtle clue and extrapolating it to a greater meaning.
If he has bitter feelings, he may be entirely justified in having them.
His only crime is in not knowing how he comes across on the date. It’s not a crime, it’s not a flaw, and it’s not inherently inappropriate.
He should just KNOW that you’re uncomfortable kissing on the first date.
As one of those clueless men who have done ALL of those things – I hate to remind you what you already know about men: we’re not mind readers. We do what comes naturally to us, not necessarily what comes naturally to YOU.