Newly single dating tips
Dating-as-a-divorced-mother was an entirely new game, one whose rules -- despite my eagerness to learn them -- remained steadfastly mysterious.There weren't going to be any short cuts, and I didn't know any single mothers to consult for tips.He had vowed not to wed again -- at the very least not until his children were older.It seemed a very sensible edict, and I wasn't looking for another marriage.It turned out that he was merely "shopping around" while she was out of town.Lesson number one: Ask more questions before accepting blind dates.Lesson number five: Date someone who gets your life.
He took such lingering pauses before responding that I started to think he'd forgotten the question.
(Did I mention how wretchedly in need of some laughs I was by this point? He was such deliciously good company that it ensured his popularity with people in far loftier social circles than I.
Needless to say, the added complication of having a child was not a big attraction for him, either. Dating as a mother demands a new level of maturity.
When I was ready to resurface, a friend introduced me to a different type of man: a divorced dad, with kids.
When I was introduced to Rob, a father of four, he was not looking for a serious relationship.